No Shave November

This week our class discussed how the social norm for women is to be hairless. We also talked about how most women go against this norm, especially during the month of November for “No Shave November”. Within the same week I came across a post on Facebook by a male. He posted and I quote, “No Shave November originated as a benefit for prostate cancer and a way to show respect for fellow men battling various types of cancer. On that note, ladies, please go shave your damn legs.” This first part of this quote is a truthful fact. At one point No Shave November was a time to support males with prostate cancer. But the second part of his quote did not add up.

Since I always have believed in equality between men and women, I became disgusted by his post. I responded to his opinion by saying, “Why can’t women support these men who have gone through cancer? Just because we are a different gender means we cannot participate?” He answered back by saying, “No, because it’s gross to see a girl with really hairy legs.” This just showed how ignorant some people can be. I then responded with, “Well first you should not be seeing girl’s legs in November anyways and second, I am sure any men who had have gone through cancer would appreciate any support they can get.” He gave up on the argument, probably because he lost interest or was embarrassed.

I would like to let everyone know after reading this is I am the last person to get into other people’s business. I am the last person to start conflict or get into arguments of situations that are not even worth it. I just saw this inequality and knew it would be worse if I did nothing about it. I do allow for this boy to have his personal opinion but he is limiting the support for cancer for men at the same time. That’s like me saying, “Boys shouldn’t be wearing save the boobies shirt during breast cancer awareness month.” This just does not add up. More people should be advocating for support instead of discouraging it.